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Oct
6
5

6 October 1981: The day a dictator was killed

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On 6 October 1981, my father decided to take me and my one year old sister to the military parade that was to be held in our neighborhood, Nasr City, marking the 1973 War.

We had just returned to Egypt after a few years of diaspora, in Yemen and Kuwait, where my father took my family, following the failure of the 1977 uprising. My father’s friends at the time where either in jail or got transferred from their university jobs during the infamous September 1981 crackdowns on dissidents.

Why did my father, who had no love for Sadat, take us to the parade? It was never clear to me. My father just thought, it’s Eid, what the heck, let’s take the kids to watch the tanks, planes, and the show.

I was roughly four years old at the time, and of course my memory won’t compute the events in a historian’s fashion. We were supposed to be at the Manassa that day. My dad knew an army officer who was a close friend to his elder brother in Tanta, and the guy had promised he’d get us seats in the Manassa, where Sadat, Mubarak and co were to watch the parade.

The officer didn’t show up, according to my dad. And probably we were damn lucky he didn’t. We ended up sitting at a stage on the opposite side of the autostrade, besides the Pyramid of the Martyrs. My aunt’s husband came along with us that day, together with two of my cousins.

The stage was almost empty, except for our family. My father told me years later that army trucks arrived before the start of the show, with the “crowd” (who were nothing but army conscripts in plainclothes), and all were chanting for Sadat.

These scenes I remember well. Some noise, explosion, and my father shouting to me: “Jump!” The stage was roughly a meter or a meter and half higher than the ground. And as a four year old kid, I clung to the edge, trying to see if my legs could reach the ground. There was chaos, and the “audience” were jumping off the stage, and some were stepping on my fingers. I was screaming. My father grabbed me, and helped me reach the ground, while carrying my sister with his other hand.

We started running for our car, which was parked in Youssef Abbas Street. My cousins were following us, and all were running, screaming, as shots kept being fired.

As we arrived home (15 mins later). My father entered the house, and shouted to my mom: “I think they killed Sadat!” My mom answered, while continuing to bake the Eid cookies: “Fi setteen dahia! (Screw him)” My mom was no fan of Sadat. She had participated in the 1971-2 student revolt, was severely beaten up by the Central Security Forces, and always held Sadat personally responsible for the atrocities against the students.

Sadat was regarded as a traitor in my family. And a traitor he was. We did not mourn him. On the contrary, there were celebrations in our house, and millions of other Egyptians sighed in relief.

When the 6th of October comes every year, I remember that day. The day our president got killed. The day his vice president Hosni Mubarak took control and started his reign of terror. This 6th of October comes and Hosni Mubarak is deposed by the people, not by a gang of armed Islamists. And his trial continues, I wish him nothing short of the fate of his predecessor.

Aug
6
0

‘Social Justice’

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Rashad رشاد

I asked my father when I was in primary school what “social justice” was. He answered, “Social justice is when you do not see anymore people throwing bread in the garbage, while others can’t find it.”

I never forgot those words…

May
28
1

#May27 Magda ماجدة

My mother came along to the protest yesterday in Tahrir…

Nov
5
1

Glass

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Glasses

My family’s house…

Mar
12
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Home

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Feb
24
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Grandpa أبو الفتوح

During tonight’s funeral, I couldn’t help but doing a sick headcount, thinking—In 10 years, I lost a father, a grandfather, a grandmother, four uncles and an aunt. I feel like the strings that attach me to where I live are, not just burnt, but nuked, whenever one is gone. I looked at my nephews and nieces tonight, exchanged few words with cousins… and I felt nothing but emptiness and failure to find any common ground to have at least a ten min conversation. My cigarettes, as always in these situations, kept me company.

Cairo can be depressing sometimes…

Sep
19
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Habiba حبيبة

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Habiba حبيبة

Habiba trying out her grandpa’s glasses…

May
4
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Salma سلمى

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Salma, my sister, Nasr City…

Apr
27
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Mirrors

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Salma

Salma, my sister, on her wedding day…

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JB, my brother in law, in the other room struggling with the tie…

Jun
25
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Rashad رشاد

Rashad رشاد

Demoralized by the failure of the 1977 Bread Intifada, and faced with an escalating witch-hunt campaign and purges by Sadat’s regime against leftists in the universities and civil service, thousands of Egyptian communists and radical nationalists left the country and sought refuge in Libya, Algeria, Iraq, Kuwait (yeah, believe it or not, Kuwait received tons of Egyptian communists back then!) and Yemen… Four months after my birth, my family left Egypt for Yemen in 1977, where we lived in Sana’a for two years. In the above photo, taken in 1978 or 1979, my father (on the left dancing while carrying a stick) is dressed together with an Egyptian friend in a Yemeni traditional costume, during a trip outside Sana’a. Below, is a pic of Hoss and Abu Hoss taken on 13 June 1979…

Hoss and Abu Hoss أنا وأبويا